Hotels...

I suppose I am just talking to myself when I blog here, but, oh well....

Gotta say it somewhere, right?

Today, I choose to have a conversation with myself about hotels....why some are so bothered and why I, even when I have been staying somewhere else, choose to use a hotel...

First off, I have encountered some not so nice people during my time as an escort...

I've run into people that I have had to turn away even after the donation has been made and the action has started...

And once I've encountered these kind of folk???

I change rooms. No ifs, ands or buts about it, I do not want them to be able to casually return to my location and be able to find me.

I went on the TNA Board about this one, but I've been threated with a gun.

After an appointment was set.

After the dude already knew where I was.

I canceled on him because he broke protocol.

That night, he sent me a threatening text. I changed rooms five minutes later.

Now, if I were to have been in an apartment while I was there and he had the same information about me....it wouldn't be such an easy thing to just "switch" apartments.

My big swan song in this illicitness is coming to an end...at least in the face-to-face type of way....still planning on camming and a few other things will be happening, but once I get back to the 9-5 world, my days as an escort are waning.

Once I have a place, I will only be doing outcalls......if I must do an "in", I will get a room...at the point I am at now, that statement is one that will cost me a surprising number of clients...already has in all honesty.

Why can't I maintain some sort of privacy about where I really live though? If we get down to it, none of us know for certain that the information we share within the hobby, names, phone numbers and the like.....is accurate. Why can I not maintain the same modicum of anonymity regarding where I lay my head at night? Where my puppy stays while I'm out shopping or working?

For better or worse, I picked this path and all of its potential for badness, but I do have a say on how much anyone knows about my non-temporary home.